Are You A Backslider Who's Sick Of Backsliding?
By: David Hopkins
Thu, Jul 29, 2010
If you're a backslider you need to know what causes you to backslide. If you don't, do you at least know how to get back right with God? But most importantly, how to prevent yourself from backsliding in the first place? If not, you'll discover the answers to those all important questions in this article.
Which Type Of Backslider Are You?
According to Jesus in one of His famous parables there are three ways a person can backslide. (Mark 4:3-20).
Seed that falls by the wayside, seed that falls on stony ground, and seed that falls among thorns.
Seed that falls by the wayside is the word of God that you get but don't understand. The devil comes immediately causing you to forget. Then you go back to what you're used to doing and you backslide.
Seed that falls on stony ground is the word of God that you get and understand but it's not rooted inside you. So when the devil comes with hard times you can't handle it. This offends you, so you get mad and backslide.
Seed that falls among thorns is the word of God mixed in with the cares of this world, pursuit of riches, and other lusts. This chokes the word before it can produce and you go back to doing what the world does, give up and backslide.
How To Turn Back From Backsliding
A backslider is a Christian who withdraws him or herself away from devotion to God and His word to go back under the control of a self-pleasing spirit.
"The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own ways..." (Proverbs 14:14).
This occurs when fear somehow replaces the faith you have in God. It then causes you to run away from the spirit of God back into the sinful world of the flesh to satisfy your doubt and unbelief.
This means you must be careful not to mix yourself up with former sins and addictions like you did in the past. But if you do there will come a time when you regret it. Your soul will long to be back depending on the Lord your God for direction and guidance. You may even be experiencing these feelings right now as you're reading this article. But don't worry.
God said, "Return, ye backsliding children, and I will heal your backslidings..." (Jeremiah 3:22).
So how do you return to God? "Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord." (Acts 3:19). Therefore repent, get back into the word, and let God blot out your sins. It's that simple. Just pray and ask God to forgive you and clean you up.
What Backslider Prevention Technique?
Right before telling another one of His famous parables Jesus said, "That men ought always to pray, and not to faint." (Luke 18:1)
The keyword in that sentence is the word faint. This is just another way of saying backslide. Jesus is talking about "praying without ceasing" or stopping. (1 Thessalonians 5:17). You should do this instead of giving up and backsliding.
The parable goes on to explain how a wicked judge who had no regard for God avenged a widow even though he could care less whether justice was done for her or not. Yet He avenged her because she showed initiative, was persistent, didn't give up and kept asking him. Because of this he said in his heart "Yet because this widow troubleth me, I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me."
The point of the parable is if a wicked judge avenges a widow simply on the basis of her continual asking, "shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto him, though he bear long with them?" The answer of course is an astounding YES! So don't forget to keep praying to God without giving up until He gives you whatever you ask Him to do for you.
For example: if the devil steals some word from you, or if hard times come, or even if you love money and sex a little bit too much you can keep praying to God to deliver you from whatever it is that causes you to backslide. Don't be afraid because eventually He will heal you of your backsliding and you will be free. So don't ever give up on praying to God no matter how you feel or how bad your situation looks.
In conclusion, it is also extremely important that you continue to pray after God has forgiven you, and cleanses you and when you are in good standings with Him. Because Jesus said, "Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." (Matthew 26:41).
to your own life and teach others
lord, i did a search on backsliding. shortly after
i came across your page. i just wanted to thank
you for helping me to understand what's happening
a little better. i have been backslidden for over
a decade now, and i so long to return to god. i am
struggling with the doubts (as usual) that god
will take me back. your article was almost like
god was speaking to me personally.
this today. like corrina, i just googled
backsliding and i was about to give up with no
answer but i made one more look... i have been
saved for over 2 years and already backslidden
once, it was horrible. i felt myself withdrawing
from him again but have no one to go to. my church
home is broken. but i can pray. i haven't been
praying for about a week now. anyway, thank you.
article on backsliding because you believe that
you have turned away from the lord yet again and
may not be worthy of forgiveness, than you can be
comforted in the fact in your heart you realize
that you have turned away from him but that his
forgiveness is infinitely larger than our capacity
to stray! praise be to god who loves us beyond
understanding.
over but backslide everytime, i will try my
hardest this time not to backslide, thanks for the
article.
for my backslidden ways and was hoping that god
would take me back, somehow, but wasnt sure until
i read your article....and as marilyn said it is
funny it was today because i never looked at the
date this article was written until i have read
the whole thing and then looked back to see what
date it was....today!..... god is definitely using
you to help others in their backslidden state who
want to return....thank you so much!!
through reading your comment i knew that god was
beginning to work a newness in me. i personally,
have been a backslidder for almost nine years and
i thought how could a god that i desserted want me
back? thanks
your post has helped me in ways you have no idea!
god is love and he is real. i too, have a
backslidden past of nine years/ ten and god had
you post your message straight for me!
to stop backsliding. i miss my relationship with
god but yet i feel so seperated from him. the
funny thing is that when u fall back in just one
sin, u commit many. this article is something
that i needed and god led me to this website. god
bless.
are all sailing in the same boat. god is a
forgiving god and he alone will reunite you with
his holy spirit. in my trial i have felt seperated
as yourself. on the otherhand little by little
through obedience god is allowing me to feel his
presence once again. i'm sure he's there for you
as well. study his word and ask for his
understanding and he'll show up! may god bless
you!
i am going to pray..fast if i have to but i am
determined to get back on the right path. i know
the way and i know that none of us are perfect but
we have to keep striving. we have to live for god
because he died for us. thanks again
whose confidence is in him. jeremiah 17:17
i know god is with us, we just have to prove that
we are sincere and be doers of his word. you
continue to be strong as well as i'm doing the
same, and i know that we will once again be
renewed through his spirit. god bless you
felt the same since..thank you for the posts, they
have really helped me get back on track. i have
alot of praying to do..thanks again
god bless you all
doesn't he? today is my 38th birthday! i have
been feeling truly backslidden for a while now in
regards to some stories i have written and some
things that i have said and did that have made me
feel very inferior.
thank you for giving us this site to read. god
bless you all on getting back right with the lord.
*hugs* to you all and happy easter!
this but few are giving practical examples like
yours ..thats why i like it...somehow. i have gone
thru many searches..i have to settle here for now
and keep reading.
i'm a backslider i want to go back home. i'm a
kind of bitter right now
been married going on 9 years, i left my church
just this week where i was ordained. i feel like
such a hypocrit, what kind of reverend am i. i
know god is married to a backslider and is
forgiving, i just can't forgive myself. after i
committed the sin of adultery, i found myself
drinking, and now i listen to secular music again.
i don't know how i allowed myself to get here.
pray for me please
first and foremost, there is none perfect, but
the father. when the woman at the well confessed
her sins to jesus he forgave her and told her to
sin no more...the men who wanted to condemn her,
jesus stated to them "he who is without sin be the
first to cast the stone." god is a merciful god
and he is a forgiving god!
just continue to pray my strength in the lord,
because right now i don't have any.
of the flesh....porn....i need help
for many years. humbers15:22-21, hebrews
6:4-6,10:26-31, 1pet 2:20-21, 1john 5:16-18. those
verses seem to diqualify me, no matter hoe right i
want to be made right with god
passage romans 8:31-40:
nothing can separate us from god’s love
31 what shall we say about such wonderful
things as these? if god is for us, who can ever be
against us? 32 since he did not spare even his own
son but gave him up for us all, won’t he also give
us everything else? 33 who dares accuse us whom
god has chosen for his own? no one—for god himself
has given us right standing with himself.
jesus died for us and was raised to life for us,
and he is sitting in the place of honor at god’s
right hand, pleading for us.
35 can anything ever separate us from christ’s
love? does it mean he no longer loves us if we
have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or
hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened
with death? 36 (as the scriptures say, “for your
sake we are killed every day; we are being
slaughtered like sheep
victory is ours through christ, who loved us.
38 and i am convinced that nothing can ever
separate us from god’s love. neither death nor
life, neither angels nor demons,[b] neither our
fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not
even the powers of hell can separate us from god’s
love. 39 no power in the sky above or in the earth
below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be
able to separate us from the love of god that is
revealed in christ jesus our lord.
amen
now. during this time i started talking to a woman
on facebook, long story short i slept with her and
now she says she is pregnant with twins of mine.
i've been sober since then (7 days as of today)
and have asked forgiveness to god. i just get so
overwhelmed and don't know what to do. i'm scared
to tell my wife this because i'm afraid it'll deal
the final blow to my marriage. i don't love this
woman that is pregnant.
years ago but fell away from god. just don't know
what to do and appreciate any prayers/advice.
school when i was 19.fell into a bikie gang and
drugs,getting tattooed,jail etc,etc.thought god
had ditched me but thanks to this website i know
he hasnt.first time ive felt his presence in a
long time.thankfully he thinks more of me than i
do.thanks guys!
that it was written today. just as i was thinking
of backsliding again this article came up when i
googled.thank you for sharing the different causes
of backsliding.after knowing this, now i know how
to addresss this problem and possibly to stop from
backsliding again.
this was written today!!!!
i am tired, so very tired of being a hypocrite
and backslider. but how you you seperate yourself
from the person that you are in the backsliding
with. without hurting them or destroying the
relationship?
and i felt i wasn't worthy of god anymore. today
though we had someone come out to fix something in
our yard. the guy happened to know a lot about the
bible and started talking about it. at this point
i didn't think i could return to god. but right
after he left i did a search and your article came
up first! it was written the the day i needed it
the most! thank you so much. i wrote more but its
too long.
that i had willfully sinned. i struggled with
hebrews 10:26-29 for so long. i had cried because
i thought i was hopelessly lost. i know now that i
am not lost. to jay there is hope don't stop
believing in god's forgiveness.
thank you donovan!
everyday for about a week. it's a record for me in
years and god answered my prayers with your post.
thank you, it is refreshing to know that god's
love will absolutely never separate us from
anything. i got saved 10 years ago. for past 5
years, ive been backsilding but i could feel that
jesus is leading me back to him. thank you. god
bless
my lovely wife died at age 40. i left the house
for only a moment to get food came back, she was
gone. she was actively searching for the lord but
don't know if she got saved. i'm broken hearted,
filled with guilt. i’m not sure what to live for
now but i’ve asked jesus to forgive me. i’m not
sure if he’s tired of me running to him only when
in trouble. please pray for me, ask the lord to
have mercy on my wife. thanks.
guilt (i was having sex out of wedlock) instead of
just asking for forgiveness and going back to the
lord, i just started to get worse doing more sin,
having more guilt, forgetting jesus. now after my
situation, i have a lot of doubt but hopefully he
hasn’t forgotten me. i pray that you ask for
forgiveness and he saves you from your sin.
been addicted to it. it’s so easy to get that
garbage on the internet and it’s like a drug. i
pray god takes the desire for porn out of your
heart.
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